Your relationship began like in a fairy tale, love was mutual, plans were rosy, and happiness was boundless. You were his muse, his ideal and one in a million. But soon they became “something different”, “no better than others”, began to “blow your mind” and “rush things”… What happened to the best man in the world? Why is his attitude towards you so changeable, unpredictable and… cruel? Why does he either swear his love or announce his separation, but never leaves you alone?

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From a letter from a reader